Brothers and sisters I have one favor to ask and it is this, please if you are trying to find yourself and you start talking up someone who is gay please do not play to their emotions.  Not only is it doing you bad karma but it is hurting another person.  We have to watch what we say and plans we make while "trying" to find ourselves.  Remember you are dealing with a real person.  Someone with real feelings, wants and desires.  Don't make plans or make an idea of a future with that person…